I was struck by the simplicity and truth behind the message. Everyday IS an event. We SHOULD dress for it. Frequently, I run into moms, both at work and in my personal life, who tell me they would love to dress more stylishly but they don't go anywhere. I'm sorry, did I not just run into you at Target? Are you not out running errands or shopping? Doesn't your husband see you daily? These are the questions I find myself wanting to ask (and at work I frequently do ask). Why NOT get dressed for life?
Am I saying you need to "put on the dog" every single time you leave the house? Nope. Do you need to "impress" your husband or anyone else? Not at all. I would be lying if I said I always wear makeup and cute clothes when I leave my house or on my stay home days. But I still try more often than not. It makes me feel good to be presentable for not only my family, friends, or strangers but just for myself. My confidence is lifted and I have an extra pep in my step. I feel like the days I "dress for it" are some of my best days, in and out of my house.
So, this morning I was feeling inspired by the idea of dressing for my day. So I pulled out the yummy fall sweater (which I have been dying to wear for the past two weeks since I bought it) and paired it with some mom friendly shorts and sandals. Add a scarf and some earrings, my look was almost complete. I even felt inspired to get a little crazy with the new eye shadows from Sephora and create a little smokier eye than normal.
Sweater - Free People
Shorts - Paige Premium Denim
Scarf - Thirty Nine 42
Shoes - Dr. Scholls
(all via Hot Mama)
The few minutes of extra thought and effort must have paid off, because I kept getting compliments on my outfit and makeup, even from random strangers. I will be honest, it felt good to have people notice! To continue my good feelings and attitude, I have left almost the entire outfit on (except the scarf and shoes) while chilling at home after work.
So next time you find yourself in a "getting dressed slump" (you know you have them) or believing that you don't go anywhere or see anyone, think about the day ahead of you as an event and dress for it. Who knows what could happen?